Posted by a volunteer
who participated in our January volunteer trip in New Orleans.
So I'm down here at HONO and getting ready to leave (actually I'm all ready but we leave in about 3.5 hours so I'm working on not getting any sleep it seems) and I'm looking back. At transformation. I just read through everything everyone has posted up until now and it's great. It helps me remember all the good work we've been doing down here. You know, that stuff we do in between having a lot of fun and checking out the city.
Wait.
Strike that.
The good work we're doing down here IS a LOT OF FUN and it's a great way to CHECK OUT THE CITY. Better than standing around on some cold street corner all day waiting for a parade and yelling for throws (down here they have made that a verb for the parades) that I don't really want anyway.
Still, transformations. I'm talking about the people. We got off to a rough start as a group, a moved meeting and no Spike Lee documentary. No follow-up meeting. Lots and lots of emails about going to see "The Breach" and finally someone saying "I'm going on this day, if you want to come great." Still, nobody knew everyone so it was a lot of an unknown quantity coming down here.
Its strange, because it feels like if you have dinner with someone, as we did before the play, then maybe you know them some, but now that we've spent a week together, I realize I had no idea who these "people" were. I remember getting to the airport, seeing everyone and, after getting some names, heading over for a nice morning beverage. I spent a great time being delayed on the runway talking to Gillian and after we landed in LAX for the layover we moved out as a pack to look for food. I'd forgotten about that. Entirely. Then I remembered tonight and I realized that the people at the time didn't have distinct enough personalities for me to particularly remember who I ate with. Now everyone stands out so distinctly.
I was really proud of myself when I could name everyone on the first day, but that's so basic, such a surface item. Now I'm looking back, at the people, and I realize that everyone I'm here with is a really great, dynamic, interesting person. Its different than the "usual world" I live in though because even when I know someone for a long while, I don't really know them in a lot of way. I've never shared a bathroom with them, I haven't listened to them snore (p.s. of the 4 guys, 3 of us snore, with the 23 total people in our room for the men, I count that there were 6 people snoring), I haven't brushed my teeth
alongside them, I haven't seen the way they pour milk on their breakfast. So many little details but things that you really start to see, and appreciate, when living with folks in tight quarters for a week. Which, at the end of the week, is still just a week. Not much time at all.
Transformation though, that's the theme. Even though I know everyone now and I can speak to something about them and we have approximately 168 hours of shared experiences (that's how many hours are in a week), I know we're different people than when we came here. Its easy to put yourself at a distance from what's going on outside your immediate work and, taking a leap, even one that only last a week, is an intense way to make things more real. As a group, and individuals, we've grown, we've transformed, we've tried to walk in someone else's shoes, and that's important to who we are. When you realize how many specific moments you can remember who make you who you are, there are precious few. As time goes on, I'll be able to pull on this to point out some of them.
Now, I'm going to get personal, because I do appreciate everyone here, and I want to be able to spell that out, so it's a personal thing, and not a general thing.
Noelle - Wow, it's crazy that I was your team captain so long ago. Now you're here, gung ho as always, and providing a really good focus and insight on the trip because of your experiences in the area, doing the work. Now a leader, I really appreciate that.
Patrick - The thing that sticks out in my mind, is that when I talked to you about taking a train to DC, you expressed that you thought it sounded like a great time, instead of the "that'll be fun for you" track everyone else gives me. Also, you've taught English abroad before, like I'm headed to soon, and it's good to know that it was good for you, it helps me stay excited the more I talk to people who share the notion.
Laura - Unfortunately I haven't been able to interact with you an awful lot but I've seen you take charge. I know that you got the first stud award for our group when you stepped up and helped everyone, including the organizers of the project, find their way to Sarah Reed for the children carnival. Now I was able to check out a bunch of pictures because you looked out there and found a good site for us to post photos on, and, I suspect, you posted most of the ones there right now. Also, since you let me use your sleeping bag its been much softer sleeping in my bunk. Better than the sheet under me before.
Michelle - I know that the other night we were talking and the bar got too loud so it was strange but I really appreciate the conversation. The way that I absorb and incorporate other viewpoints is by asking questions and trying to get your perspective and making that work with mine. I was able to do that and I really appreciate it. Plus, you stayed around with me while I finished my beer, which is really great, a nice thing to do.
Chris - For a few days, I wasn't sure if I was just getting on your nerves or what but I gradually got the vibe that you were cool with me, despite that fact that I was one of the snoring folk in your room. I also recall you mentioning, at Tully's, that your job had agreed to postpone a project that you are key in, while you came down here. It's great to see that and it's good to know that good people are willing to do that for others, its really self-less. In a trip with 12 girls and 4 guys I've appreciated that you're around to talk with while we walk to the streetcar or while eating dinner at Jack-eh-moz.
Beth - "I'm in science." Well I was able to listen in on your explaining what you do to someone else and "it's really important work." It was cool though because I remember reading about it and it sounds like very fascinating work. Also, you have an easy laugh and a bit of a laid back manner that's really pleasant to be around. Plus, your family is from Montana even if you aren't really, and we talked about Butte (I think we did?).
Nora - Well you let me sleep on your couch so we could share a cab (with Kelsey!) and save some cash. I feel like I still owe one of you for my part of the cab fare, is that right?!? Aside from Noelle you were the one I knew before coming down here and it's been nice having you around. It was very reassuring to come with people I knew and it's been great you have around to give me a hug and ask how I am. Plus, when you headed to the dirty coast store you picked up the shirt I asked you for which is great because I think it's a hilarious shirt.
Trish - Hey! We live near each other! I'm actually hoping it works out we both ride the bus from the airport tomorrow because I really like riding the bus and I haven't had a chance to talk with you due to different projects and night plans. Even though I haven't felt like I've interacted with you much, a really nice smile goes a long way when you're sore and tired. Plus, you live near me! I don't actually know anyone else that lives near me these days. Thanks.
Kristin - Well I missed my last chance at a night cap playing mad libs and drinking "grape juice." Sorry about that. However, you were able to share your experiences about when you were down here before, right after, and every little insight helps. Plus, we bowled together at Ms. May's, and you beat me, but it was a lot of fun. Thanks for being ready and enthusiastic to head out and hang out.
Gillian - Apart from the people I knew before the trip you were the one that I met the first. I really appreciated chatting with you on the plane. Because of that I was also more ready to head out in the cab with you and I'm really glad because the first parade, Crewe de Viewe, was a lot of fun and now I'm safer than before (I think you know what I'm talking about)! You went into the work with a lot of good energy and it was good to have that around.
Megan - No, no, I'm over here! Yeah, thanks to your coaching on the "wrong shoulder tap" technique I feel like I'm much better equipped now than ever before! I remember practicing it then trying to find a good situation to test my new skills on you before finding the right moment and making you look the other way. Now that I write about it, pretty silly, but I had fun. Plus, I feel like we were able to share some little exchanges that were really pleasant. Finally, wear that new jacket.
Kelsey - Well you shared a cab with me. That's pretty awesome. For some reason I feel like we didn't work on any projects together, which makes me sad. Still, you're the last part of what I've been referring to as the "trio" lately to help me keep track of folks. Some kind of a comedy trio and I hear that working on a project with you was hilarious, maybe on the next trip eh?
Susanna - High Five! Chugga-chugga, chugga-chugga, chugga-chugga, choo CHOOO! Yeah, that's us, what some (Bryan) might call too much team bonding, I think it was great! Plus, now I know what gregarious means! You went to the museum early and had some great details to contribute about the parades and things. That was really nice because its the random stuff that keeps it interesting and entertaining.
Bryan - Conversations we wouldn't have. Plenty of them and heading out with you to the French Quarter was the first time I wasn't with a girl or alone. It was really cool to hang out with you, get your perspective on things, share some random opinions and observations about the group and enjoy some food. Even if the mac and cheese was underwhelming. Plus, you do a lot of great work with Seattle Works and share that "let's see how much we can do and how fast we can do it" attitude when moving things like huge piles of gravel or bags on concrete in a wheelbarrow.
Erin - UPTOWN GIRL! Yeah, you're my uptown girl and even though everyone seems to know more of the song than we did, that's ok, because we still kick ass. There's that something about your personality that made it a lot of fun when you were around. Plus you totally took charge in the kitchen last (Friday) night and made some great food. Thanks for singing with me even if you didn't work on your lyrics. We'll do the other 35 verses some other time.
Every time I heard about someone's day, I felt like it sounded like I wish I was there. Sharing the experience with you, from Church, to Heading to the High School, to the initial Streetcar Adventures, to everything in between. Unfortunately I couldn't be everywhere doing everything but down here was where I wanted to be.
My summary is, I think we all know about ourselves, and we've had a great time learning it, even the times when we've wanted to, or have cried, it's been good. Character is an amazing thing and you all have a ton of it.
Plus the days went like this -
Monday - wow, it's only Monday, seems like it's been longer.
Tuesday - ugh, this is way harder work than I normally do, can I take a whole week of this? Is it really only Tuesday?
Wednesday - What? It's already Wednesday? What do you mean we only have two more days left, there's still so much to do!
Thursday - rain? No, no, no, we're from Seattle and we're not ready to let rain stop us! Oh...you mean painting in the rain means the rain runs? Dang, I wish we were able to get some work done (and a bunch of us said "we'll paint indoors! we're still going to do something!).
Friday - wow, we got the color around here up, the flowers planted, it looks a lot nicer, are we really done though? It's already been a week of projects? No, we don't want to go home yet!
Thanks.
- Blake Statham